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Best dating apps and sites in November 2023
Find love (or something more casual) this month with this selection of top dating apps, including March, eharmony, and EliteSingles.
This content originally appeared on Mashable for a US audience and has been adapted for the UK audience.
Dating is a competitive game, and you should do everything you can to give yourself a chance of success. Looking your best and smelling fresh is a good place to start, but nothing shortens your odds of success like signing up to a dating site.
The problem with this tactic is that there are just so many dating sites out there to consider, each with a different set of features that will suit some people better than others. It’s difficult to know which site is best for you, and you could easily spend hours researching all of the sites on offer without a definitive answer.
We know that you don’t have time for all of that, so we’ve set out to make things a little easier for you.
What are the benefits of using dating apps?
By subscribing to a dating site, you’re shortening your odds of finding a connection. It’s as simple as that.
Dating sites and apps let you get your information out there to a massive network of like-minded individuals, and provide the opportunity to test out a potential relationship on an app before actually meeting in real life.
Subscribing to dating apps and sites is also a way less intimidating way of meeting someone compared to a face-to-face situation. If you find the idea of meeting people slightly terrifying, these apps can help you face your fears from the comfort of your own home.
Is online dating worth the hassle?
Sentiments aside, we have some hard data to back our reasoning for Why Online Dating Is Worthwhile™: Statista predicted that the online dating audience will grow to 53.3 million by 2025, compared to 44.2 million users in 2020. A study from Stanford released in 2019 asserted that online dating is officially the most common way for couples to meet, rounding out at nearly 40 percent of couples having first met online.
This pre-pandemic prediction came before the COVID-era dating app sign-ups surge. Though people are eager to get back to doing as many things IRL as possible now, dating apps are still a great place to find someone, whether you want a relationship or are just looking to get nasty.
And yes, though there are algorithms that dictate what profiles pop up on your screen, we firmly believe that the stars aligning still comes into play. After all, the person who signs up on the app and is looking for love at exactly the same time you are is up to fate and the universe, proving that online dating romance is very much alive and well.
Because it’s not 2007 anymore, the need for mobile-friendly online dating isn’t just a millennial thing — people over 40 don’t have time to sit around at their home desktops, either. Dating sites that are older than most members of Gen Z (like Match and eharmony) have been forced to give serious attention to their smartphone counterparts if they don’t want to be outgrown.
However, that statistical promise still requires patience and a game plan, the game plan is choosing the dating app with features that best fit your lifestyle — and the lifestyle of the type of person you’re looking for. Are you looking for an app strictly for sex or an app more serious than Tinder but less serious than eharmony? Or maybe, you’d just really love to find an app where queer women aren’t relentlessly sexualized by creeps and pestered by unicorn hunters.
Should you use free dating apps?
The good news is that there are a lot of free dating sites and apps out there, and the likes of Tinder and Hinge are good examples of free apps with massive networks of users.
The bad news is that a lot of free apps simply don’t cut it. You get what you pay for with dating sites and apps, and for the best experience with the greatest possibility of finding exactly what you’re looking for, you are going to have to cough up the cash.
You can still find something worth your time with a free app, but if you’re looking for compatibility tests, chat rooms, videos, and a greater level of control, we recommend upgrading. Paid sites provide access to premium features that give you the best chance of finding something special.
What is the best dating site?
We’re sorry to break it to you like this, but there isn’t a single dating site that is better than the rest. Instead, there are a lot of sites and apps with similar features and packages, and the best option for you really comes down to your own set of preferences.
To make the decision process a whole lot easier for everyone, we have lined up a selection of the most popular sites in the dating game, including leading sites like EliteSingles, Match, and Eharmony. All you need to do is pick a favourite from the bunch.
These are the best dating sites in 2023.
9 best dating apps for lesbians, gay women in 2023
TikTok not doing it for you? These apps, including HER, Tinder and many others, may open your options for lesbian and gay dating.
Online dating as a lesbian, for the most part, still involves having your space invaded by straight people.
The heteronormative weirdness got so alienating that lesbians turned to TikTok as a means of meeting other single lesbians (and it worked), but it’s unrealistic to expect a social media app to work like a dating app for everyone. Lesbians who have exhausted their local romantic options are still going to want to see who else is out there in time for cuffing season.
And while it’s unfortunately still all too common to match with a woman just to be hit with the classic “My boyfriend and I are looking for a threesome,” dating apps have been making strides to make sure queer women actually have a space to date other queer women.
How to find the best dating apps for lesbians
Mainstream dating apps attract the most users — including queer users. These days, Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, and even eharmony all have clear filters about looking at people of the same gender or any gender at all, as well as filters that acknowledge the existence of non-traditional relationships. Especially if you don’t live in a densely populated area, going for a more popular app can help you actually make connections.
With that said, HER is an app by and for queer women, and it’s been growing steadily. According to their website, the app has over 13 million registered users worldwide. The app also emphasizes finding community and making friends in addition to dating, giving you plenty ways to find a connection with other queer women and nonbinary folks.
For the full low down on our recommendations, check out our list below.
A note on what didn’t make the list
A decent number of dating sites and apps specifically for lesbians do exist, but most are plagued with the same issues: Either their sole purpose is to sexualize lesbians and aren’t really meant for genuine connection at all, or their lax security protocols make it way too easy for ill-intentioned men to sign up pretending to be women. (Creeps are drawn to porn-y names like Pink Flirt.) If you’re wondering why we left most of those so-called female-only apps out, that’s why.
Best dating sites for professionals in 2023
Looking for love without sacrificing your career? Find the best dating sites for professionals in 2023.
Meeting people in real life is ideal, but it’s not always realistic, especially when life revolves around non-stop work hours, launching a startup, juggling multiple clients and side hustles as a busy freelancer, and just generally trying to have it all.
There are not enough hours in the day, and honestly, the free hours we do have are typically spent showering, sleeping, or hovering over the sink, chowing down on whatever we can find for dinner or lunch. Sure, it’s not always pretty, but no one said success would be easy.
So, how do you find time to meet people when you’re too busy for happy hour? Fortunately, the philosophy of “work smarter, not harder” can be applied to your love life, too.
The best dating sites for professionals make it easy to meet someone who’s on your level.
Yes, we know you’re online all day for work, and the last thing you want to do is spend more time on your computer or phone trying to find a partner. But online dating lets you connect with potential partners on your own time and terms.
This means you can forego the awkward almost-maybe-not relationships and curate your dating experience to fit your lifestyle and schedule.
Are there dating apps for professionals?
When you think of dating apps, two things probably come to mind: Tinder (or worse, Facebook dating) and the question of how you’ll ever find someone who can understand that your busy lifestyle is just who you are. The good news is that we can answer both of these concerns right here and now.
First, let’s deal with the whole Tinder thing. Yes, it’s super popular, and for a good reason: people are getting laid! But if you’re looking for something more than a casual fling, there are so many other options out there. Hundreds of dating apps, including Bumble, EliteSingles, and The League, have features designed for single professionals interested in finding a more meaningful connection. You honestly don’t even need to download or use Tinder at all (unless you want to!).
Now, let’s talk about finding someone who understands and respects your busy lifestyle. You’re not alone in wanting a life that’s meant to go somewhere, and you shouldn’t have to settle. You deserve someone who can lift you up and support you, not drag you and your dreams through the dirt.
How can you find this person? Through the very peculiar power of niche dating sites. Whether you’re looking for the best dating sites for professionals over 50 or dating apps for people earning six figures (or more), we’ve gathered a list of the best dating sites for working professionals.
Best dating sites for men Nov. 2023: Find love or a hookup
Find your perfect match on the best dating sites for men, updated as of Nov. 2023. Whether you’re looking for casual flings or committed relationships, we’ve got you covered.
Meeting someone organically, or “in the wild” as some call it, is a challenge these days. Unless you’ve got a strong case of main character syndrome or are literally the star of a romantic comedy, you’re more likely to meet someone through online dating.
But online dating isn’t always easy. It can be tough to keep up a conversation with someone you don’t know anything about, especially if you’re only basing your opinion on their looks. And that’s if you can even find someone worth chatting to in the first place (a.k.a. someone who doesn’t immediately give you “the ick.”)
The best dating apps for men are a good place to start when you’re ready to put yourself out there. Read on for tips on how to navigate online dating and our tried-and-true recommendations for the best apps.
Why is online dating so hard?
Online dating poses a challenge for both men and women, but in different ways: If it’s a lady you’re pursuing, chances are she’s received more than a few unsolicited messages already. For women, maneuvering around the bounty of creeps is often more work than it’s worth.
Knowing what to say when you’re first messaging someone can feel impossible. You don’t want to come across as weird or too overeager, but you also don’t want to seem uninterested. It’s a fine line to walk, and with the added competition, a seemingly unfeasible challenge. Here are a few tips to help you get the conversation started, and help you move past that first message writer’s block:
Be yourself and respect boundaries
The internet is plagued with tales of nasty messages and absolutely whack opening lines from men. Avoiding the creep factor with someone you just matched with shouldn’t be hard — simply don’t be pushy about sexting, getting a phone number, or meeting up in person. (Just don’t be pushy about anything, really. It’s as simple as that.)
As for devising an opener that’ll blossom into a nice conversation, it’s important to remember that even the most harmless intent to be funny or flattering can quickly go south.
For men who are a little rusty or generally shy about messaging first, choosing the right dating app can make all the difference. Bumble, the app where only women can make the first move, is an obvious safe choice for the latter.
Here’s a good rule of thumb: Be yourself. There’s no magic formula for finding the perfect match, but being yourself is your best bet to find someone who shares your interests and values. It also doesn’t hurt to look at their profile before you start chatting. This will help you get a better idea of who they are and what they’re looking for.
Seeing someone’s hobbies, favorite movies, career goals, or even political views before talking to them opens up a wealth of clever icebreakers.
Be honest about what you want
Tinder can be the right app for some singles, but it’s not the only option. If you find yourself constantly deleting and re-downloading Tinder every other month, it might be time to try a different dating site.
Think about what’s not working: Is it too entrenched in hookup culture? Is it not focused on hookups enough? Do you find yourself mixing intentions with people not looking for the same thing? Each dating site serves a different purpose, and things are a lot easier when you’re mingling with people who want what you want.
What are the best dating sites for men?
The answer to this question isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer, but we’re here to help you pick the best option based on what you’re looking for.
From fling-based apps to dating sites that cater to more serious relationships, here are the best dating sites and apps for single men — whether you’re looking for a date, movie buddy, friend with benefits, or love and commitment.
The best dating apps: 13 picks for November 2023
Not sure which dating app is right for you? Check out our guide to the best dating apps of 2023, which gives the details on all your online dating options, from Hinge to eharmony and Feeld.
Not too long ago, social media was the go-to spot online for meeting a potential partner or finding a hookup for the night. Before that, you probably had a few friends who met their significant other the old-fashioned way: at a bar, coffee shop, or bookstore (all the meet-cutes we’ve seen in romantic movies).
Fast forward to 2023, factor in the lingering impact of the COVID-19 pandemic, and our dating landscape has evolved — we’ve got a mix of in-person and online dating options to choose from. Social media (think: Facebook dating, shooting your shot on Instagram, and sliding into DMs) is out, and dating apps are (back) in.
Are dating apps worth it?
If you’re on the fence about getting on the apps or are wondering if it’s even worth signing up, here’s why recommend giving them a shot.
Dating apps give you the rare opportunity to connect with hundreds of people you wouldn’t have known otherwise while also allowing you to explore your sexuality and find out what you want in a partner.
Statista predicts that the online dating audience will grow to 53.3 million by 2025, a leap from 44.2 million users in 2020. This pre-pandemic prediction came before the COVID-era dating app sign-ups surge. And, according to a 2023 report from the Pew Research Center, one in every 10 partnered adults (married and committed couples) discovered their current partner through a dating site or app. That’s a lot of swiping right.
Sure, online dating can still be a bit of a slog — but that’s basically the case for dating in general. It takes time and effort, even if you’re using the best dating site or app possible. Even so, apps are a great way to keep you meeting new people and helping you find the connection you’re looking for.
Which dating apps actually work?
With so many dating apps out there, it’s easy to feel confused or overwhelmed by the options. While Match Group (Tinder, Match, Archer, OkCupid, Hinge, Plenty of Fish, and The League, among others) continues to dominate the market, you don’t have to limit yourself to just one brand when looking for the best dating app.
First Round’s On Me (FROME), for example, is a newer dating app that’s gained popularity for its date invitation feature. Choose a drink, date, time, and venue; the app will send a personalized invitation to your potential match. Once a date is confirmed, it’s locked into both users’ calendars, and the in-app chat feature is activated 12 hours before the date.
Other apps, like Feeld and Pure, cater to people open to ethical non-monogamy relationships or threesomes. There really is something for everyone out there.
The best dating apps of 2023
Finding the best dating app is purely subjective. To help you out, we’ve narrowed down some of the best dating apps of 2023 based on hands-on testing, customer reviews, overall functionality, availability (all are available on the App Store or Google Play), and user-friendliness:
Best dating sites for people over 40: What we’ve tested (and loved) as of November 2023
Looking for love after 40? We tried and tested the best dating sites and apps for singles over 40.
Dating beyond 40 may seem intimidating. Unlike your 20s or 30s, you can’t assume everyone your age is single and looking. While meeting people organically in public still happens, it can be easier to meet potential partners where they’re actively seeking a romantic connection — on dating sites. Read on for the best dating apps for people over 40, plus tips on how to get back in the dating game.
How to start dating again at 40
The first step is just acknowledging that you’re ready. From there, decide how and where you’d like to meet potential partners. Dating apps have become the norm over the years, making them a standard choice rather than a last resort.
You’ll also want to be direct with what you’re looking for. Are you interested in a serious relationship, a casual encounter, or perhaps a friendship that could evolve into something more? Whatever it is, be upfront. You don’t want to fall for someone only to realize you aren’t looking for the same thing. Yes, it’s more vulnerable to say exactly what you want, but being straightforward from the outset is the new dating norm.
As in any phase of life, dating takes time and patience. We spoke to Jennifer Frazier, a 46-year-old based in Indiana, who met someone awesome on Match. They went on a few dates, and she really liked him, but he was interested in dating a lot of women at the same time, and though Frazier enjoyed his company, she realized that kind of relationship wasn’t for her.
What are the best dating apps for over 40?
The best dating site varies depending on what you’re looking for. If you want something serious, match has 25 years of experience to help you find someone compatible who is also looking for a serious relationship. eharmony also specializes in serious relationships, but the site is really for people who want to marry their next partner, so it’s taking serious to the highest level. Though, Frazier had a pretty shitty experience with eharmony — after the extensive questionnaire, she was matched with a coworker’s husband (yikes). While you would hope everyone on dating apps is single, you still want to pay attention to obvious red flags.
Casual daters and people who don’t want to jump into anything too serious just yet should utilize Tinder, Hinge, or Bumble. OKCupid is best for liberals and the LGBTQ community. There is a dating site for everybody; finding the one that strikes gold for you might take some time.
Finally, after extensive reviews of the top dating apps, we recommend that singles over 40 avoid Zoosk and Our Time, two apps that didn’t make the cut. (Check out the “How we tested” section below for more information on our selection criteria.)
Most dating sites and apps have free versions, so you can test them without fully committing. Here’s a breakdown of our top picks for the best online dating site for people 40 and older:
The best dating apps for women: Where to find a relationship, a hookup, or something in between
The dating app where a woman will find the most success depends on what (or who) she wants. We explore when the situation calls for Bumble, an app where women initiate, eharmony, or ol’ reliable Hinge.
Being a woman on the internet is hard. Being a woman trying to find a genuine connection on an internet where potential matches feel emboldened to be creeps in the DMs and AI profile photos pique more curiosity than real ones, apparently, is digging for a metaphorical needle in a digital pit of manure.
That said, it’s not impossible. With a bit of common sense, tough skin, and a pinch of research (which we’ve so carefully done for you), there’s no need to rule online dating out as a place to find romance, a wedding date, or an animate alternative to your sex toy collection.
So, which dating app is best for women?
We can’t tell you what to do, and we honestly don’t want to. But what we can do is provide recommendations based on the entanglement you’re interested in getting into. Don’t want men to be able to message you first? Bumble. Would rather your dating pool consist only of other queer people? HER. Simply want a less game-ified feel than Tinder — or a free ride to the airport? Hinge.
But really, we know online dating is exhausting — so we’ve done the hands-on work to ensure that each of the platforms in this list goes beyond superficial swiping and generic profiles (unless, of course, that’s what you’re looking for, which we’ll state in the product description). Here are our favorite dating apps for women in any situation:
Best dating sites for seniors: Updated for November 2023
Looking for love after 50 or 60? We’ve tested the best mature dating sites to help you meet someone to spend your golden years with.
Dating can be awkward, scary, and just plain frustrating at any age. True, being in the over-60 group may mean that more people your age are already off the market, but there are still so many fish in the sea. Online dating can introduce you to those fish that you may have never met otherwise.
To help you find your perfect match — whether you’re interested in something casual or a long-term relationship — Mashable tested the best dating sites for seniors to evaluate age-specific options and more mainstream apps with large mature user bases alike. Our goal? To figure out which dating platform is the best fit for you, and to demystify online dating as best we can.
Is dating over 50 hard?
If you’re hesitant about trying online dating as a senior, you’re not alone. While using the internet to find love or a date is second nature to young folks, there’s a bit of a learning curve for new, older users. But here’s the thing: Seniors actually have tons of advantages when it comes to online dating.
For starters, many people in their 20s simply aren’t ready to settle down. But as a mature dater over 60, you’ve been figuring out this whole “love” thing for longer than millennials have been alive. You know the red flags, and you know what you want.
In general, online dating gives you access to a wider pool of potential matches. When you’re limited to meeting local people in person, serendipitous moments can feel few and far between. The best online dating apps are like windows to the world, letting you connect both with people who live nearby or cuties from somewhere you’ve been thinking of visiting. Plus, you can’t deny the convenience (or the rush) of the possibility of meeting your special someone even on the nights that you don’t want to leave your couch.
We’ve gathered the best dating sites for seniors below based on our own experiences, hands-on reviews, and research with dating app users. We’ve also included some info to help you make the most of online dating, like whether a platform requires a paid membership to access the most in-depth features. (Note that prices for dating apps and sites are constantly changing. We update regularly, but there might be minor price differences.) From fun, easy-to-use apps to more serious dating websites, here’s to finding love later in life!
UPDATE: Sep. 22, 2023, 1:00 a.m. EDT This article has been updated to reflect our latest hands-on dating site reviews. Ultimately, we decided to remove Zoosk and relegated Our Time to “last-resort” status.
Best sexting apps: Find anonymous satisfaction in 2023
Sexting apps can be fun and low-risk if you do it right. Check out our list of the best sexting apps for intimate conversations and more explicit connections, updated for November 2023.
In a world where online dating and casual hookups have become the norm, dating can still feel exhausting. Sometimes, just the thought of putting on “real” clothes, coming up with witty conversation starters, and commuting to the actual meetup spot can be tiring. No matter what kind of encounter you plan, when it comes to dating, there’ll always be some sort of physical effort required.
The good news? There is one loophole: Sexting.
What is sexting?
Sexting is the art of sending sexually explicit photos or messages to one or more consenting people via text. Like sex itself, sexting “is an opportunity for you to liberate yourself, explore what you want in bed, and get to know your partner better,” writes Mashable sex and relationships reporter Anna Iovine. “Sexting can benefit both you and your budding relationship (or hookup, or however you define it).”
Once viewed as taboo, sexting is now definitively mainstream. According to a 2023 survey of U.S. adults by the market research platform Statista, 77 percent of participants said they’ve sent at least one sext — that’s up from 45 percent in 2019 and just 14 percent about 10 years ago.
Sexting’s recent surge in popularity is due at least in part to the pandemic, which gave rise to a new era of digital dating. But it also helps that there are now a number of apps that make sexting easy and safer than standard SMS messages.
How to find the best sexting apps
Not all apps for sexting are created equal, and some of the best ones aren’t even built for dating purposes.
To help you make the most of your sexting experience, we tested some of the top private chat apps. Based on our research and hands-on testing, we’ve narrowed our list to a few apps that prioritize privacy, safety, and user-friendliness for sexting. They’re also pretty affordable, with some even offering free options.
Here are the best sexting apps for all your NSFW exchanges.